Hey there, parents! I know how overwhelming family photo sessions can feel. Just mentioning “picture day” might make you tense up and your kids roll their eyes. But let me assure you: we’re going to make your family session fun, relaxed, and something you’ll all enjoy.

As a family photographer here in Raleigh, NC, I’ve worked with countless families to create meaningful, joyful memories. Along the way, I’ve discovered some simple ways to turn picture day into an experience everyone looks forward to—yes, even the kids! Let me share my top tips for getting your little ones excited and involved without the stress.

1. Make It Feel Like an Adventure

Let’s stop thinking of family photos as a chore and start treating them like family time. Instead of saying, “We have to get our pictures taken,” try telling your kids, “We’re going on a fun outing together!”

When kids think of it as an adventure, their excitement starts to build. Whether we’re exploring Pullen Park, strolling through JC Raulston Arboretum, or simply playing in your backyard, the key is creating an experience filled with joy and curiosity.

During our session, we might chase bubbles, walk along a trail, or play some games together. Kids light up when they’re part of something exciting. And when they’re genuinely happy, that’s what shines through in your photos.

2. Let Them Help Plan

Kids love feeling like their opinions matter, and involving them in the planning process can make all the difference. Here are a few ways to get them excited:

Picking outfits: Lay out a few options that fit your vision and let them choose. Even letting them pick a favorite accessory, like a bow or hat, can make them feel included.
Choosing a location: If you’ve narrowed it down to two spots, let them vote on which one sounds more fun.
Bringing something special: Maybe it’s a beloved stuffed animal or a favorite book. Including these personal touches not only makes kids feel more comfortable but also adds sweet, sentimental details to your photos.
Planning a treat for afterward: Whether it’s grabbing ice cream at a local spot like Two Roosters or visiting a favorite playground, letting your kids know there’s something fun to look forward to keeps everyone motivated.

When kids feel like they’ve helped shape the day, they’re not just cooperative—they’re excited.

3. Pack Snacks and Drinks (Seriously, Don’t Skip This)

Here’s a little secret from behind the lens: snacks save the day. A quick snack break can turn a grumpy toddler (or even a hangry teenager) into a happy camper in no time.

Pack photo-friendly snacks like crackers, dried fruit, or small candies that won’t leave stains on clothes—mini marshmallows are my personal favorite! And don’t forget water bottles! Familiar sippy cups or bottles can be a comfort for little ones. The key is to use snacks as a chance to recharge, not as a bribe. A little break can go a long way in keeping everyone happy and relaxed.

4. Make It All About Play

Forget the stiff “say cheese” poses. Instead, let’s make your session feel like playtime. Some of my favorite games to include are:

Follow-the-leader along a trail or path
Dancing together in a field (bonus: it makes for amazing candid shots!)
“Red Light, Green Light” to get everyone giggling

Playful activities not only create genuine smiles but also help burn off some of that boundless energy. The result? Beautiful, authentic family photos that capture your unique connection.

5. Keep Expectations Realistic

Here’s the truth: the best family photos aren’t perfect. They’re real. Some of the sweetest moments come from the unexpected—a spontaneous hug, a burst of laughter, or a toddler running into your arms.

Don’t stress if things don’t go exactly as planned. We’ll take breaks if we need to, adapt the flow of the session, and keep the mood light. Kids don’t need to perform; they just need to be themselves. That’s when we capture the moments that matter most—the ones that show your family’s love, connection, and personality.

Let’s Create Something Special

Are you ready to plan a family photo session that’s stress-free and full of laughter? Whether it’s a milestone, a maternity session, or simply celebrating this stage of life, I’d love to help you create timeless memories. Let’s chat about making it a fun and meaningful experience for your entire family. Reach out today, and let’s start planning!

5 Ways to Involve Your Kids in Family Portraits Without Stress